Relationship or Career

Dear Members,
This is the bazi chart of Chickypoo, she would want to know of her relationship or career.

About the chart:
The extreme right pillar is this years;2009 pillar, which is Yin Earth over Yin Earth. On the extreme left pillar is her 10 year luck from age 26-35(actual age is 25-35). The center 4 pillars is her actual 4 pillars of destiny.

1. Her Day Master, self is Geng Metal, Yang Metal.
2. She is consider a strong self due to the many earths support. In bazi, we seek to balance.
3. Her favourable elements will be Wood and Water.
4.Her unfavorable elements are earth and metal and fire.

Representation of her favourable elements of:
Wood=Wealth
Water=Output.

Representation of her unfavorable elements:
Earth=Resource
Fire=Authority
Metal=Sibling,friend

About her Relationship:
Fire is her authority/power or the one who conqurer her, can be her spouse star. Too much resource, earth, weaken the spouse star. In 2007, she should have meet her male friend, however, due to her strong self and the weak spouse star, the relationship cannot be substained. Even her luck pillar of Wood (her favorable) cannot help much because of the earth below the wood. In summary, her spouse star is weak, her relationship will not be smooth.

Career:
Carrer wise, I would like to mention about her charater, she is a perssimistic lady. Many time she will fell depressed and unhappiness. She has to be careful in her health. She may suffer from insomnia. I would say that she will face social problem at work so much so that her career path will not be smooth if coming to human relationship matter.

Base on her charater, she can do online business.

The above is based on her destiny chart interpretation. His bazi and time of birth I do not change or adjust to her place of birth.

Chickpoo, I wish you best of luck, stay happy, make more friends and share your knowledge.

Easy Way of Identifying The Flower of Romance Star

How to locate the Flower of Romance (FOR) Star. I remember by the below method. To locate what is your FOR star, all you have to do is know your own zodiac sign. Allow me to illustrate it using the below chart:

1. Based on the 4 cardinial points, N,S,E and W. I have put up the 4 points indicated by the color.
2. Know the zodiac sequence, Rat(1),Ox(2),Tiger(3),Rabbit(4),Dragon(5),Snake(6),Horse(7),Goat(8,Monkey(9),Rooster(10),Dog(11)and Pig(12).
3. Ok, now you start, always start from the W (Rooster) and moves anti-clockwise, there are only 4 points, from W - S - E - N. How? Simple, when we start from W, we also count, W =1, what is the zodiac of 1? It is Rat. Therefore, Rooster (West) is the FOR for zodiac sign Rat. Next, move anti-clockwise and carry on with the counting, from W(1) next is S (2) which is Ox, therefore, Horse is the FOR for zodiac sign Ox and so on.
4. Keep counting anti-clockwise. Let say a zodiac of Pig, that is 12, keep counting anti-clockwise and it will ends at the N (Rat), Rat is the FOR star for Zodiac Sign Pig.

You can use your own method to your own convenient. For me I use this method and it serve me well.

If you are keen to learnt and know more about bazi or four pillar of destiny, you can visit the below site:
Feng Shui and Bazi/Four Pillars of Destiny

A Weak and Hot Chart

This is a weak and hot chart. This chart belongs to our member, Mr Choy Kah Yew. Kah Yew was born in 22nd June 1970 at about 1100 hrs.

The chart is as follow:

According to the Hsia Calendar, he was born in the 17th day of Mid Summer where is it still hot, furthermore, he was born in the hour of 'Wu' (noon), making his chart a hot chart. Kah Yew's DM (self) is weak due to only 1 x Water and 2 x Metals support, in summer water and metal are weak. As a result, his Day Master (DM) is weak.His Year Pillar of Branch is also hot earth. Hidden in the 'Wu' is fire and he has two in the chart.

Favorable and Unfavorable Elements
A weak DM needs resource and parallel(friends and sibling) to balance the chart. According to the destrutive cycle, Earth control Water, Water destroy Fire, Fire melt Metal. Those elements are in the chart.

Logically, he needs Metal. Come Metal, the earth give birth to metal and metal give birth to water, when water is strong, it will be able to cold the fire. Therefore, the most needed element is Metal. Metal is his resource, he needs to go for resource first. The next favorable element is Water. In conclusion, his favorable element is Metal and Water.

His most unfavorable element is fire and wood. Earth can say to be neutral, because Earth comes in from Heavenly Stem it will give birth to Metal and Metal will give birth to water, if it comes in from the Earthly Branch, fire will give birth to earth and earth will in-turn give birth to metal.

This year is wet earth year, at least can cold this chart. Next year is Tiger Year, The 3 combination will turn the Xu earth into fire. His heavenly stem of Gui and Wu combined to form Fire, which is his unfavorable.

What Is My Self Element

Dear Member:
Below is an example of a bazi (four pillars)of Ferry who wants to know his self element. Mr Ferry, a male born in year 1975, month of Feb, 15th day and at 0530 hrs.
His four pillars of destiny chart is reflected below:

Ferry's questions are:
1.What is my element? ( water, wood, fire, earth, metal )
2.What is the perfect job for me?

First of all there are many free software which allow you to erect a four pillar of destiny chart. Just do a google search and you will be able to find one. A more comprehensive one you may have to pay for it. If you just want a to erect a simple chart, a free one wil do.

To answer Ferry first question on what is his self element. The Day Pillar of a chart represents the Self. The top element is know as the self element, it is the Heavenly Stem, and the bottom; Earthly Branch represents the Spouse Palace.

I have indicated clearly with the appropriate color to represent the element. 'Ren' is a Yang Water. Ferry's self element is Yang Water. We can say that it is like Ocean Water.

He asked about what is his perfect job. I would say that a Ren person change decision very fast. Ocean water needs to be guided, if not properly guided, this ocean water can be a destroyer. A Ren person is also a good listener, he get feedbacks collectively.

For a person to know what is his/her perfect job, this person have to know what are his strong and weak points. Based on his bazi, he needs to be mentored. If he is a boss, he needs some good workers under him. If he works alone, he needs to more prudent in his decision.

Happy Reading.